You don't care? Not even about your friends? Wow... selfish bitch is right.


i never said i didn't care about my friends. i do, deeply. if anyone tries to mess with my friends, i'm ready to kick ass and defend them all the way. but i have this great ability of indifference when it comes to certain opinions they might have. its not that i don't respect what they have to say, i just don't care to hear it. and, being my friends and knowing me so well, they respect that about me. they don't care that i don't care. it's what my friends do. we care about each other, but we don't always have to agree on everything, nor do we have to care about everything the other says. because, in truth, sometimes it doesn't even matter.

we care about each other. i love my friends so much. but that doesn't mean that i have to listen to every word they say and care. that's the great thing about friends, that you can not care about things that they say and they're completely ok with it. you can disagree on big things, yet still not be at odds with each other. you can bitch and bitch and bitch to them about your life, and they are there to listen. then you can say something, and it won't even matter to them, and that's ok, because they are there for you when it counts.

Karen has to be probably THE most important friend in my life.

i'm not saying that all my other friends can go to hell, but without Karen, i don't know what i would do. she's my opposite, my balance. we can totally disagree about things and not know where the hell the other is coming from, yet we're the best of friends. we can bitch about anything to the other and its fun. we keep each other's secrets. we don't keep secrets from each other. she's just so great.

My other friends are just as important in my life. seriously, i don't know what i would do without them.

but that doesn't mean that i'm not allowed to care about some things. in our group, i'm the girl that doesn't care a lot of the time. but if my friends need to talk, i'm ready to listen. if they need a shoulder to cry on, i'm there with shoulder pads and tissues. i'm ready to threaten anyone that makes someone i care about upset.

my friends are one of the most important aspects in my pathetic existence. but that doesn't mean i have to care 24/7 about all their opinions about every single thing in the whole entire world.

my friends know the real me. that's all that matters. everyone who doesn't really know me i can't really considere a close friend since i've kept them at a distance.

and to make a comment like the one above just proves that you don't know me at all.